I attended a conference a few weeks ago when one of the speakers used just one slide – a picture from the movie ‘Misfits.’
The general premise of his entire talk was that he felt he probably was something of a misfit himself, but that he was always fascinated and inspired by those people he termed ‘misfits.’
That label was something he gave them because, well they were people who didn’t fit nicely under any of the labels that others wanted to put them under.
And right away I loved it.
I think I did so because I’ve never viewed myself as having been in a box, which is why I’ve never liked the idea of ‘thinking outside the box.’
I mean, apart from an escapologist, who would ever want to be thinking inside a box anyway?
I love the idea that it is okay to be continually looking for something new, an adventure; to know that along the long path on the search for happiness you’ll make mistakes; to realise that is what life really is all about anyway.
But at the core of it all, I believed the message was that misfits are still passionate and driven and irrespective of their search for that new adventure, they will always give of their best to the job they have at hand.
For them life is not boring. Work is not meaningless and they know that when it comes to motivation they will need to generate that themselves on a daily basis
So they do – most no doubt unaware of the old German saying that goes – “You’ll have to take life as it happens, but you should try to make it happen the way you want to take it.”
And there is great wisdom in that.
We can fall into line. Tick the box. Wear the label – but we should only do that if that is what we want for ourselves.
After all, it is what we do with our life that will determine whether we view it as an adventure or as drudgery.
But just remember, it is never too late to change. And it is ok to be a misfit!