There was a point at the weekend, as I sat watching the television show ‘Strictly Come Dancing,’ that made me realise how important it should be for all of us, to be open to the idea of pursuing the unfamiliar.
A few years ago, I was unfamiliar with that television show – in the sense that, while I knew it existed, I had never watched it or knew what it was about.
Had I done so, had I known what was involved, it is very likely that I would never have agreed to have taken part in the strictly fund raiser for the local school. And that would have meant I missed out on a huge milestone for me.
By that I mean the fact that, despite my deep reservations about my total inability to do it – I did it anyway – and in doing so began to understand that we enjoy life more if we expose ourselves to the unfamiliar.
Many people – and yes I am still among them – get in the habit of saying no to new experiences. But that far too often leaves us in a comfort zone that restricts our growth.
Sometimes we do so because of the self-limitations we have set for ourselves.
Instead of having chosen to stay where we are, we have actually just settled for what we are – and in doing so we often leave so much potential untapped, undiscovered.
Mark Twain who espoused the idea of getting out of the comfort zone when he said “Do something every day that you don’t want to do,” also told this great story of unfulfilled potential.
A man who was interested in military history, died and went to heaven where he was met at the gates by St. Peter.
Deciding he would make the most of the opportunity, the man explained his fascination for all things military and asked St. Peter if he could let him know who was the greatest general of all time?
“That’s easy,” St. Peter replied, pointing nearby, ‘it’s that man over there.”
“I think you are mistaken,” the first man said to St. Peter. “I knew that man you have pointed to on earth, he was just a common labourer.”
“That’s correct,” St. Peter answered, ‘but he would have been the greatest general of all time…if he had been a general.”
It’s important to understand that we should never short change our potential.
Those who stand out from the crowd have learned that all development is self-development. Growth is an individual project and the crowd will often stand back to let a winner through.
My strictly experience highlighted that I’d never be the greatest dancer of all time, but far more importantly it reminded me that only in action do we ever learn and grow.
It is not enough to have desire, it is not enough even to prepare, because unless they are followed up with the responsibility to take action, they are, on their own worthless.
The power to grow, to expand our horizon, to step outside our comfort zone is ours to act upon.
That’s as long as we can eliminate our self-imposed limitations, address inhibitors and excuses and make changes in our habits so we can break through mediocrity.
We need to stretch ourselves each day to accomplish more than the day before.
To understand that the commitment to having a better tomorrow, will always start today…
OUT OF THE STORM
There will always be
more storms to weather,
opportunities to hide,
to keep the head
below the parapet
until it seems
a perfect time has come,
to peek out from your fears,
hoping that just maybe,
the worst of the tempest
has passed you by.
But those storms can also
offer exciting new prospects.
Chances to show strength;
the fortitude to keep focus
on the glimmers of brightness
however far, on the horizon.
The choice to tough it out,
to shake off obstacles and pain.
To step out from the shadow
of those raging storms,
and learn to dance in the rain…