Over the past week, I’ve been thinking a lot about growth. About the determination it takes to inch forward all the time, ever slowly moving to places where there are always new and exciting possibilities on the horizon.
These thoughts, I have to admit, were largely inspired by watching both my daughters graduate college this week.
In doing so both finished top of their class and were awarded prizes by their respective colleges and it is difficult to put into words the feeling of pride in what they have achieved.
But I also know that these accomplishments came through sheer hard work and determination on their part.
The realisation that the pursuit of excellence is an ongoing experience that means a person must be prepared to sacrifice easier options to stay on the path to success.
The uncanny wisdom of Aesop’s fables summed it up perfectly in the story of the goose and the golden egg.
That story tells of a farmer who finds a shiny, glittering yellow egg in the nest of the goose and at first is convinced it must be some trick and is ready to throw it away.
But he stops for a second, thinks and then takes it home to discover to his delight that it is indeed made of gold. Each day he gathers an egg from the nest of the goose and becomes rich beyond his wildest dreams – but then greed and impatience sets in.
Thinking he can get all the gold the goose can offer at once, he kills the goose and opens her to find nothing.
What that story tells us is that growth is an ongoing journey of ups and downs, successes and failures, opportunities, progress and change.
To think that it can all be attained in one fell swoop is wrong and can result in losing the fortune amassed through the daily activities that make up the process of growing.
I once read somewhere that the largest room in the world, is the room for improvement and I am convinced that in realising that, you learn to always strive for better.
In his book ‘Peak Performers’ Charles Garfield wrote:
“Searching for the peak performer within yourself has one basic meaning: You recognise yourself as a person who was born, not as a peak performer, but as a learner. With the capacity to grow, change and reach for the highest possibilities of human nature, you regard yourself as a person in process.”
Watching my daughters move onward in their life journey, reminded me though that we are all on our own journey still and we all have the potential to continue growing.
We are accountable for our own lives, responsible for what we are now, where we want to go and what we will become – because ultimately, everything – peace of mind, well-being, happiness and growth will came as a result of our own decisions.
It’s up to us to choose wisely. And when we don’t – to learn from those mistakes and go again.
I Wish For You
I wish for you
never to be afraid
to stay on the road
that lets you
follow your dreams.
To set your sights high
and to take whatever
chances you need
to get there.
To take flight
filled with desire
daring and determination.
And to keep that.
Always.